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Gone unexpectedly and tragically today in front of pretty much my entire family except for my daughters thank goodness.
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I’m so sorry man.
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Holy shit, Giff. So sorry.
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Oh man, Giff. Really sorry for your loss.
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Prayers to your family.
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Giff, I am so sorry for your loss. All my thoughts.
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Damn. Sorry Giff.
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He fell off a balcony after some railing gave way. We were all out there after having an awesome brunch talking about sending a pic of our bellies to his granddaughter who sent a 30-week pregnancy pic last night. I’m smiling at him and next thing I know he’s fallen back and down. I somehow had the wherewithal to grab my phone and call 911, paramedics were there in 5 minutes. We thought luckily the worst was a severely broken ankle, but he went into cardiac arrest in the ambulance on the way to the hospital.

I will never have that image out of my head. Permanently scarred.
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I’m so sorry Giff.
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Giff, I am really sorry. Condolences.
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So sorry.
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Thinking about you and your family, friend.
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Sorry man. Thoughts with your family. Hope good memories help you during this time.
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Oh my God, that's horrible. So sorry, man.
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So sorry
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I’m very sorry to hear this, Giff. Hoping for the best for you and your family.
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Oh God that is horrible.

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Jesus fuck. I'm so sorry, man. I'm half tearing up thinking about that.
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Oh God, man. I’m so sorry to read this. You have my deepest sympathies.
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I’m so sorry for your loss.
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Giff, so sorry for your loss.
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So sorry for your loss, Giff.
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So sorry, Giff.
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Fuck.

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Giff, I'm so sorry to hear this. What a horrible thing.
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Wow Giff, so sorry to read this. Sorry for your loss.
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holy shit, giff. im very sorry for your loss.
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So sorry to hear. I wish you and your family comfort and strength in dealing with such a tragedy.
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Very sorry to hear. Condolences on your loss.
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Appreciate the kind words. It’s very surreal.
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Giff wrote: Sun May 10, 2020 8:10 pm He fell off a balcony after some railing gave way. We were all out there after having an awesome brunch talking about sending a pic of our bellies to his granddaughter who sent a 30-week pregnancy pic last night. I’m smiling at him and next thing I know he’s fallen back and down. I somehow had the wherewithal to grab my phone and call 911, paramedics were there in 5 minutes. We thought luckily the worst was a severely broken ankle, but he went into cardiac arrest in the ambulance on the way to the hospital.

I will never have that image out of my head. Permanently scarred.
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I didn’t realize until last night that his other granddaughter that was there didn’t see it either. So luckily only 7 of us replaying that image over and over and over.
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How are the kids?
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Sorry to hear this news. Thoughts are with you and your family.
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All the granddaughters were his “Goobers” until a certain age.

Our youngest is four and doesn’t really grasp what’s happening. Harper is doing OK. I lost a grandparent at that same exact age so I can remember what it was like to go between tears and like everything is normal. She is feeling real grief at a loss of a human she was very close to for the first time and she doesn’t understand some of her physical feelings like feeling sick at her stomach.

My in-laws came and got them so Kelli and I could grieve a bit alone and help out with whatever we need to do.

Appreciate you asking.
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Sorry, Giff.
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Jesus, just terrible. Will be thinking of you and your folks.
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holy crap, so sorry
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Holy shit. That is just awful. I'm so sorry, Giff.
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I'm so sorry, condolences to you and your family.
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