The Swamp

rass wrote: ↑Thu Jul 07, 2022 12:57 pm I guess the kid wasn't too far off base asking if you had ube in Kentucky


(and there is a dedicated bagel thread - you'll never guess who had the last post)

rass wrote: ↑Thu Jul 07, 2022 1:49 pm The coffee shop above sometimes h.. a .. s...p..ube pies ... They were great. And adorable.

mister d wrote: ↑Tue Aug 09, 2022 1:33 pm Shower went well.

mister d wrote: ↑Mon Aug 29, 2022 8:09 pm Anyone have a DMV they highly recommend to solve a problem that is somewhere between a minor self-inflicted issue and a less minor self-inflicted issue?

A man in New Jersey is accused of habitually urinating on his ex-wife’s grave, according to media reports.

The purported desecration occurred at the Tappan Reformed Church cemetery, a centuries-old burial ground on the border between New Jersey and New York.

Michael Murray told News 12 that the saga began when he repeatedly noticed deli bags full of feces placed near the grave of his mother, Linda Torello, and contacted the police.

Officials took a report of the incident, and Murray later obtained permission to place cameras on the cemetery grounds to try to obtain footage of the act, according to the outlet.

The footage, which was too poor quality to bring to the police, revealed Torello’s ex-husband was the perpetrator, according to the New York Post. Murray later returned and obtained higher quality footage with his phone.

The 68-year-old man visited the cemetery “almost every morning between 6:14 a.m. and 6:18 a.m. with his current wife” and urinated on Torello’s grave, according to the Post.

“I can’t get my wife to go out to dinner but this guy gets his wife to go along with him to desecrate my mom’s remains every morning!” Murphy told the Post.

The man apparently has a long-standing grudge with Torello, according to WABC News. He was married to her for a short period of time more than 40 years ago and left when she became pregnant, insisting that the child was not his, her family told media outlets.

DNA testing proved the man was indeed the child’s father, according to the Post, and Torello remarried later.

Torello, an avid animal lover, died in 2017, according to an online obituary.

A public urination charge was filed against the man by the Orangetown Police Department on Sept. 18, and the investigation is ongoing, according to Orangetown police.

govmentchedda wrote: ↑Wed Oct 12, 2022 8:06 am Rutgers just fired their OC and promoted a guy named Nunzio Campanile?

govmentchedda wrote: ↑Wed Oct 12, 2022 8:06 am Rutgers just fired their OC and promoted a guy named Nunzio Campanile?

mister d wrote: ↑Fri Oct 21, 2022 8:18 am Rass, if you hear that the talk of the Tiff's staff last night was about an insanely nice pair of joggers a guy wore in for dinner, you can brag that you "know" the owner.

mister d wrote: ↑Fri Oct 21, 2022 8:18 am Rass, if you hear that the talk of the Tiff's staff last night was about an insanely nice pair of joggers a guy wore in for dinner, you can brag that you "know" the owner.

The Sybian wrote: ↑Tue Sep 27, 2022 4:28 pm So much to unpack in the cemetery desecration story… The current wife who walks with him while he pisses on the ex-wife’s grave, has it occurred to her he will probably piss on her grave one day?

rass wrote: ↑Fri Oct 21, 2022 8:29 amWere you nice to the host?? She's having a bad week so I hope so.

I had two beers there last night. One I paid for when I dropped her off and one they comped me when I picked her up, both were Jughandle.

sancarlos wrote: ↑Thu Nov 03, 2022 3:46 pm Seem like kind of a scary time for the Jewish guys…

mister d wrote: ↑Mon Feb 21, 2022 10:47 am New Jersey’s 44 greatest bagel shops, ranked

This list confirms my suspicion that NJ is actually a bad bagel state, especially relative to geography. On the flipside ...

The Best Bagels in America

... would appear to confirm that its a NJ problem and not me problem given that my 3 favorite places all made the list.